Boob Day: TGIF

Sliding into the weekend, ready for fun and sex and sin in all forms. I want to indulge: eat too much, drink to much, sleep too much and … well, you can’t ever fuck too much. Continue reading “Boob Day: TGIF”


To the Moon and Back

When it’s dinner time here, he’s going to bed there. We say goodnight, always a drawn out and adoring bit of texting or Skyping, and when I set down my phone I have to let him go. Continue reading “To the Moon and Back”

Character terms – #writebigsexywords

Welcome back to #writebigsexywords ! This is our third installment – we have looked at words for colours and words that express a feeling or state of being and this week we turn to words that help us describe a character’s look or personality. I often struggle with building character descriptions and over simplify them by focusing on the superficial, the outside, how they look. It’s much more challenging to weave in their motivations, personality and behaviours but the results can give you a more robust and nuanced description that may help your readers grow attached to the character, or if you’d rather, it can repel them – some of the most interesting characters are the ones we don’t immediately like or that we find troublesome in some way. Picture perfect characters are often less dimensional than characters that feel more real when described with relatable human emotions. I am trying to push myself towards terms that take us beyond whether a character is good or bad, handsome or ugly, shy or bold, etc. Here’s a sampling of some words I’m loving and using lately … Continue reading “Character terms – #writebigsexywords”

Elust 104

Welcome to Elust 104

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #105 Start with the rules, come back April 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!


~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

A Wank and a Spank

The S Word

At My Feet Continue reading “Elust 104”

Giveaway – The Spellbound Silicone Rabbit Vibrator

It’s almost Easter, and if you’re like me, you want more than just chocolate eggs in your basket. You’re in luck! It’s giveaway time and I’ve paired up with the good folks at Too Timid and they have graciously offered to send one lucky reader the Spellbound Silicone Rabbit vibrator. Continue reading “Giveaway – The Spellbound Silicone Rabbit Vibrator”

Once more, with feeling – #writebigsexywords

Welcome to the second weekly edition of #WriteBigSexyWords – a new feature here on F&H where we look at synonyms for words and concepts that you may encounter when writing, particularly if you’re writing erotica. Last week we looked at alternate words for common colours to make descriptions of people and things more interesting and appetizing. This week’s theme is words that describe a feeling or describe a state of being. Continue reading “Once more, with feeling – #writebigsexywords”

Hook Ups

This is my first submission to Food For Thought Friday and the topic is: Hook Ups. Most of us have had them and I think most people will agree that they can either go very well, or very poorly. In my experience there’s very little in between, or at least they start out well and end horrendously. Am I painting a picture yet of my opinion and experiences? Read on for some detailed accounts of my no strings attached sex life … Continue reading “Hook Ups”