I can’t deny the surge of power that affixing a phallus to my body gives me but the feminist in me rages. Why should the appropriation of a male cock boost me so? Simple: we’re conditioned to associate power and strength with cocks. I accept that to be true, to be fact, but when I tighten these straps, it’s about me, my power. So fuck the patriarchy. Literally.

Any takers?

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23 thoughts on “Conflicted”

  1. Very lovely 🙂

    I always get very intrigued at the power rush that women get from this. Rationally speaking I find it a lot easier to understand things like a Feeldoe, where it provides physical pleasure as well. I have stopped trying to understand it and learned to just appreciate it… because when it draws a woman in like that… she is magnificently beautiful and it leaves me in awe.

    Thank you for sharing. Take care.

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    1. Yes, let’s not over think but learn to enjoy. I use loads more to say re: sex, gender, identity, etc. and this post is admittedly reductive, but that rush of authority and sexual invincibility is very real, for me at least. Thank you for your thoughtful comment.

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  2. This is not my kink and yet your writing makes me slightly curious about it. I wonder if I would feel the same wearing one…. as for the image, it is strong and powerful and that is very sexy


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    1. To be honest, for all my switchy and now Domme-ness, I didn’t think that strapping one on was going to be much of a thing for me because penetration is not a top priority to me regardless of roles. I like it just fine as a receiver but there’s so much more than PinV or PinA. But something about having a cock instantly inflates my confidence.


  3. Interesting topic to ponder. Having a cock does, in a certain state, make me feel powerful, but that power only comes with confidence about my body – something not associated with any one gender. Your wonderful picture not only screams ‘power’, but ‘pleasure’ too.

    In answer to your question; yes, fuck the patriarchy. Please.


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  4. Great thought provoking pose and some very interesting conversations generated with it. I too get a rush with a strap on – er strapped on. I do like to peg though I haven’t had the chance for a long long time. That’s quite a powerful looking piece of equipment btw!

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  5. An interesting thought, and yes perhaps you are right there is truth that a cock and power go hand in hand (please excuse the pun). Never tried a strap on (either to give or receive), but this is a very powerful image.

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  6. “So fuck the patriarchy. Literally.” As I said yesterday, this photo and your words give me lots of feelings. Topping with a strap-on is definitely something that, like you, I’m still working out how I feel about in terms of gender and power and feminism… but all that aside, this photo is so utterly sexy. x

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  7. I *love* wearing / fucking with a strap-on. It’s just awesome to be able to experience a different means of giving pleasure. Even though I can’t feel the sensations myself, it makes me appreciate sex from a different POV.

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